Self-Mastery Tip: Enhancing Meaning and Purpose

by Dr. Brian Higley

January 11th, 2010

The great psychologist Victor Frankl (who survived the Nazi death camps) said that we can handle and “what” in our lives if we have a strong enough “why.”  This shows how important it can be to connect what we do with something that is meaningful to us.  If we can connect our goals with an exciting meaning, purpose or mission, we tend to feel more energized to overcome the barriers to achievement of our most important aims on a day to day basis.

Meaning and  purpose can be enhanced by staying aware of how what we do connects with our broader objectives in life.  Here are some ways people have been able to stregthen meaning and pupose in their lives:

• Become very clear about Primary Objectives. Primary Objectives are statements of what we want to experience or accomplish in life.  Some examples might be: “Keep in good physical and mental shape,” “Provide my customers with outstanding services,” or “Be patient and kind to my family members and friends.”  Primary Objectives can help strengthen a sense of meaning and purpose in life; becoming clear about what we want out of our lives is often the first step toward meaning enhancement.
• Identify activities that are strongly aligned with Primary Objectives. Once we are clear about what we want to experience or achieve in life, we can then begin aligning our daily activities with those objectives.  For example, a daily activity aligned with the objective “Keep in good physical and mental shape” might be “Stretch for 15 minutes every morning.”  The more clear we are about how to make our Primary Objectives a reality, the more meaningful our days can be.
• Do a barriers and solutions analysis when Primary Objective-aligned activities decrease. We all have days that seem less meaningful than others.  During these days, we can increase meaning by identifying what may be stopping us from doing what we want to do, then making a plan to overcome these barriers to meaningful experiences.   For example, a possible barrier to the activity “Stretch for 15 minutes every morning” could be that an alarm clock failed to go off in time for our stretch.  We can then adjust the activity in some way that still allows us to feel as though the Primary Objective (for example “Keep in good physical and mental shape”) is still being fulfilled.  It may be that the stretch can happen during breaks at work or in the evening, for example.

NOTE TO THOSE USING THE MISSION FULFILLMENT SYSTEM: You can work toward enhancing meaning and purpose by adding a new Objective to your system by using the “Add New Item” link (for example, “Enhance my meaning and purpose in life”).  You can then develop a SMART Goal related to that new Objective by using the “Add Subitem” link to the far right of the new Objective (for example, “When I encounter a barrier to accomplishing one of my most important goals, I will do a barrier and solutions analysis until the goal is accomplished.”).

FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT ON THE MISSION FULFILLMENT SYSTEM: Click here to for more information and click here to sign up.

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